I am recently divorced. I was married for almost fourteen years. Our daughter if going to be fifteen this summer. I moved out of the marriage when a third party is involved and she and her son is living in the house my ex-husband and I dreamed about. I beleived in tha sanctity of marriage and God. But I had to live in order to leave and save our daughter fom his father who became worst when he met the woman and her son. Because of that belief, I had no savings on my own when I left what's worst all money I have from work as the case dragged on for custody battle went directly to my Atty. and people who loaned me money.

My question is, hence I helped this man save his name and to college, and he is earning a lot than I do, can I claim his retirement pension even if he is not yet retired? What id they get married, do I still have the right to continue collecting even if he have a new wife?

Also, I am in my fifties and never have my retirement savings except my workplace who put a little money for my my retirement. Due to what happened my daughter and I might go other State when she goes to college. Our plan is to buy a small apartment or a small house and I would like to save for this for putting money in my retirement account. This way I will not also pay tax for it as of this stage. Is this the right choice in this economy? If so what kind of investment?

My question is,